Top 10 Tips To Get A Threesome

Last week I shared with you my three threesome stories entailing the circumstances in which I had my last three threesomes with beautiful women.

Those experiences alone don’t make me an expert but I have had A LOT of experiences over the years; many positive and many negative and I have learnt just as much if not more from the times I came close to getting a threesome and blew it than the times in which I successfully got myself a threesome.

Those times when I was able to get a threesome, I can safely say I got my success mostly through learning from my past experiences and not making the same mistakes twice. Now I am going to share with you my top 10 tips to get a threesome, in the hopes that the Way of the Player community will be able to profit from my own past experiences.

1. Get A Female Wingman

To put it simply, it’s a lot easier to get a threesome if you already have one girl who is down with it already. If you are going out and trying to pick up two girls for a threesome then you are banking on finding two girls who are open minded enough and sexually curious/comfortable enough about one another to be up for it.

If you already have a girl, whether it be your girlfriend or a bi-curious girl you are sleeping with then you only need to concern yourself with picking up the one girl instead of two… And in addition to that, she will be able to help you pick the girl up and can earn her trust as a fellow girl.

If you don’t know a girl who is already down with the idea, then don’t sweat it. With the right attitude and confidence you can meet threesome curious girls everywhere.

2. Have Supreme Confidence

Since you’re planning on taking two beautiful women into what will most likely be unfamiliar sexual territory, you will need to exhibit a powerful confidence at all times. This is important so that they feel like you know what you’re doing.

Be one 100% certain of yourself at all times. If the conversation turns to sex at any point, then make sure that you discuss it with confidence. This will make them more likely to believe you know what you’re doing in the sack.

It takes enough confidence to pick up one girl for sex, you will need a lot more to pick up two girls for sex… But don’t worry if you don’t have a lot of confidence now because you can always change that at the flick of a switch. You just need to believe in yourself and your abilities and go out and try it until you get success.

3. Be Cool

As well as having killer confidence it’s also essential that you’re able to keep your cool and don’t get too over excited because this can be a turn-off.

You should act like a threesome is no big deal to you. Act like you’ve had many threesomes before and it’s just some harmless fun that cool sexually liberated, open minded people can have.

The more you can put them at ease through being cool, the easier the transition to the bedroom will be.

4. Have A Threesome Game Plan

It’s no good organizing a threesome and then realizing that you have no-where you can take them.

Make sure you get the logistics sorted before you go out and try to pick up some beautiful women for your threesome.

If you don’t have a place you can take them back to, then make sure you know of a good hotel that you can book a room at last minute; preferably one that doesn’t charge by the hour.

It’s always good to have clean sheets, a full fridge, a ride home etc. Because any one of these little things could make a potentially awesome sexperience an epic failure, so don’t be lazy, make a game plan.

5. Don’t Pick Favorites

From the moment you meet the girls to the moment you take them home, make sure that youre equally generous with your time and attention to both. Don’t let them feel like you have a favorite of the two (unless one of the girls is your girlfriend)

Be a generous lover to both women. Try not to spend more time pleasing one than the other, if one of the girls is feeling left out, it might cause upset and potentially ruin the experience.

A threesome is a delicate balancing act and as the man it’s your role to ensure that everyone has a good time and no one is neglected.

6. Put Their Needs First

Despite what some might think… In a threesome it’s not about the guy, it’s about the girls. They are one’s who are really going out of their comfort zones and they are in it for a good time as well.

If you want it to go well, you need to make sure that they’re having a good time. Otherwise chances are they will get uncomfortable and awkward about it and want to back out, this happens so frequently to guys it’s ridiculous.

The path to threesome success is paved with the ‘almost threesomes’ which didn’t happen. Normally because the guy got over zealous and didn’t put any effort into making sure the girls were comfortable and happy.

Don’t be that guy, be a good host to your threesome. Put the girls needs and happiness ahead of your own, they will reward you for it.

7. Mood Enhancers Help

Since most girls will be going out of their comfort zone on this, if you feel comfortable with it, offer them some alcohol (or other substances) to calm their nerves.

The best thing to do is always keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge and if possible when you take them back to your place for the threesome, have a few drinks to lighten the mood and ease them into the threesome. Don’t try to rush things straight to the bedroom. If you have gotten them that far then there is no hurry.

Be weary, there is a fine line between helping a girl relax and plying her with alcohol until you can take advantage of her. Be constantly weary of that line and don’t be creepy about it.

8. Set The Mood

Music is usually really good for helping to make a threesome happen. However, you’ll want to make sure that you put the right kind of music on. Death Metal or Provocative Rap music wont go down so well and will likely achieve the opposite result. House music usually works best.

Scented candles are also really good because they set a seductive atmosphere. Fluorescent or otherwise bright lights are a big no-no because girls feel insecure about their bodies enough as it is without being lit up like it’s Christmas.

You could also always put on some pornography if you’re feeling that they are into that kind of thing… But if you suspect they might not be then don’t do it because it will make you look super sleazy.

9. Be A Leader

In a threesome you want to be like the director of a pornographic film; leading and instructing the girls on what they should do, who they should kiss, what they should lick/suck/fondle. Get them in the habit of following your lead and make sure they are enjoying the experience at all times.

If you don’t take control and be the leader then it will likely become an awkward and disorientated affair, so the best thing to from the beginning is to instruct them to kiss and touch each other until they are sufficiently turned on and trust enough in your leadership to allow you to join the party.

10. Make It About The Fun

A classic rookie mistake that guys make is that they make a threesome too much about the sex and they forget to have fun.

A threesome is not a serious affair and if you want to pull it off well and without bad incident you will always be better off putting the focus on having fun enjoying each others bodies rather than just ‘getting the job done’.

In real life a threesome is not the same as a porn movie, things can be a bit confusing at times and everyone has their own wants and desires that need to be accounted for.

It feels different to sex with one other girl because there are three people involved in an act that is usually reserved for two, so it’s only natural that it feels a bit more complicated (yet still awesome).

As long as everyone is happy, smiling and having a good time then your threesome should be an epic success, it’s only when things get serious that women start to have doubts and insecurities. Remember that if nothing else.

 

On a side note, when you do have a threesome, make sure you change the condoms for each girl because although you might not get any STI’s wearing a condom but transferring the same condom from one pussy to another can and will transfer any Sexually Transmitted Infections from one girl to the other, so be a gentleman, change it over.

By Kieran Black

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Top 10 Tips To Get A Threesome