Phone Sex With Mr. X

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A wise man once told me that confidence, determination, passion, communication and wisdom are some of the most vital of features a man can hope to possess in his lifetime. What once took years of guesswork on how to possess such traits now only takes minutes of reading. Thanks to technology (and a lot of trial and error by some great men) you too can start to ascertain the knowledge necessary to start you on your own path in retaining the skills needed to lead a life full of happiness, harmony and pleasure.

Now many a-men would be hard pressed to explain how and why phone sex and the skill of phone sex can lead you down such a path at an accelerated rate but thankfully, you have me.

Prior to unlocking this skill-set, I was a very “lost” man. Now by that I don’t mean that I didn’t know where I was, rather that the manhood or masculinity that was inside me was covered up by a lifetime of social conditioning. For years, I was too afraid to push outside my boundaries, too afraid to say what I was thinking and yearning. But one night that all changed. I was talking to a girl over the phone and decided to take the plunge. I started to lead the conversation into a sexual tone. Slowly but surely replacing myself (if only for a few minutes) with a new identity. I called him Mr. X.

I wasn’t aware of this but soon I had her screaming my name and cumming to my voice. My heart was pumping, I was more alive and aware than I had been in a long time. Orgasm after orgasm I became more and more empowered by the interaction. Even long after we hung up I felt my confidence and sexuality not only flood my brain but also increase in my own traits. No longer was I afraid to push what was considered “boundaries”. After more trial and error with other women I saw what this new-found skill and realization was doing for my psyche and character. Cutting to the chase, I was becoming the man I could only dream of. I was walking down the path of confidence, determination, passion, communication and wisdom, all traits necessary in order to get a woman to orgasm on the phone.

Without further adieu here is part one of my sex series, starting with phone sex;

The Taste of sweat on her neck, her lace bra feeling up against your bare chest, the heat of her breath giving you Goosebumps down your neck; Each word is designed to create imagery that not only engages your brain in ways you were never fully aware of but these images also allow yourself to become in tune with your own sexuality.

Car sex, bathroom sex, plane sex, helicopter sex, every possible form of sex that you can think of can be achieved without even leaving your room or turning off your lights. (Of course I advise you to try them in person, they are kind of fun, my personal favorite being helicopter sex).

How you ask?

Through your imagination and the use of a phone.

Way before you, I, or even Sheila from the corner office ever even thought about getting nasty on the phone, people like Benjamin Franklin and Mark Twain were crafting hot, seductive, steamy piles of letters intended for their boo’s. So descriptive and true that they were omitted from common history and only a few people today truly know the dirty secrets of these great men.

This verbal sex, or perhaps better understood as a true form of art, is older than caveman paintings. While you may now know it as “phone” sex, all it really is, in its purest form, is the seduction of the mind through sound.

If you think about it, the premise postulated is not that far fetched. Have you ever herd a song so beautiful that you got lost in it, almost completely losing track of time? Have you ever had one song that, no matter how much you played, still gave you a specific sensation that allowed you to fall asleep or work out harder than you thought capable of?

Well, in theory it’s the same as using your voice to help paint a vivid picture for someone in order to help him or her get lost in the moment long enough to orgasm, powerfully. Using your imagination and voice to craft a story, setting, and image hot enough to turn on a person in ways they never knew possible is really just about learning and understanding how the mind works.

While its easy to get a guy to orgasm its hard to get them to orgasm powerfully and uniquely. Any guy can tell you that some orgasms are just terrible while others are amazing. For women, the only true method of getting them to have multiple and/or rolling orgasms is through foreplay. And if you haven’t guessed it by now, phone sex is one of the most intense forms of foreplay out there.

I am going to start with some basics that will get you comfortable with the idea of phone sex. Once you have reached that comfort, only then will you be ready to learn the simple theory of what and how to say to seduce the girl/guy of your dreams (god knows women need to learn this skill just as badly as men; maybe if I remember I’ll include some anonymous examples of bad female foreplay).

After you have shed those fears that stop you from taking these steps, not only will your sex game start to improve but so will every other facet of your life.

A few keys to start you off:

• Explore your sexuality. Find out what it is exactly you like. If you cant have your own sexual fantasies then this will never work. Sorry dude, even though we have enough pressure on us to lead interactions, this scenario is no different. As a man you need to be able to guide and create the scenarios that turn on a person and how can you achieve this heightened state of arousal if you don’t have any of your own sexual fantasies?

• Recreate your sexual fantasies. Once you have figured out what it is that floats your golden boat, start visualizing it in every possible way. Your perspective, her/his perspective, a third person perspective, an avid porn watchers perspective. Build the story; flesh it out, every gritty detail needs to have been explored. Lie down, stand up, look in the mirror, whatever it is that you need to do, do it.

• Visualize the story audibly. Start taking these images and turning them into words. Afraid to say cunt, clit, dick, pussy, balls, slut? Get over yourself, this is no longer public “you”, this is the “Im a fucking freak monster” time, where you get to set your sexual fantasies loose and here, you are the master. When you become comfortable with the idea of these words, it will no longer matter what you say because the other person will be so lost in your energy and the fantasy you build, that you could call them anything without repercussions.

• ***Tonality. This is one of the keys. If you are a guy with a falsetto voice, learn some vocal exercises that will start to allow you to speak from your stomach and therefor give your voice a deeper, more sensual tone. Ever had a girl tell you she finds your morning voice sexy? That’s because that deep, unfiltered, monotone sound penetrates her mind in ways us men can never understand. (As for women, you can have a man voice, it doesn’t matter as much, as your job isn’t so much in tone as it is in compliance (at least for this article).

• Confidence. This is the last tip of this article. Say everything with confidence. Do not ask permission for phone sex, do not stutter or get wrapped up in what’s going on. What’s the difference between a good driver and a bad driver? Confidence in your driving skills. You are the driver in this scenario. Don’t over think, don’t ask, and just do. Do it with a sense of masculinity and not only will you turn your woman/man friend on, but you will start to subconsciously develop this habit in your day-to-day life.

Women have, for the purpose of this specific article, a different fourth key and this is more important than anything else in this article (outside of point 1).

4. Forgiving/compliance: If you have forwarded this article to a man (or woman) you are seeing then please ladies give them time. If you aren’t showing this glory and instead suggest phone sex to the man (or woman) you are seeing then understand that growing pains are apart of the game when trying something like this. Awkward pauses, random laughter, strange sentence structure and/or fantasies etc. Your job is to forgive them for it (god knows I had some awkward moments) and to the best of your ability remain in the moment and enjoy it. Once your lover/friend/sex-buddy learns to handle this new skill not only will you start to orgasm in ways you have never orgasmed before but you will also see a distinct change in their confidence levels outside of the bedroom.

As a precursor, this takes time to develop. As the old adage goes “Rome wasn’t built in a day” and neither was someone’s phone sex skills (in case you haven’t noticed they are of equal importance). I’ll write up another guide to phone sex after you’ve let this sink in long enough to have the “ah” moment everyone gets once they start to understand a new concept.

Submitted by Way Of The Player reader ‘Mr. X’

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