Part 2: The Sexcapades Of A Feminist Slut

Way of the Player

Hey Way of the Player readers! The slut is back! As promised, today I shall be debriefing you all on my very first sexual encounter as well as some of my favorite lays.

I was fifteen years old. I’d known this guy for about three weeks – we’d been dating for two. I was head over heels and I can’t remember why. It might have been his green eyes, his tough demeanor, or the fact that we’d spend hours on the phone. Whatever it was, I fell for it completely. About two weeks into our “relationship” we went to the movies with a group of my friends, We watched an action film and it was about halfway into the movie when he and I wanted to go to the back of the theater to make out. Of course, I was on top and things got a little hot and heavy. Not to mention it was summer time and I was wearing questionably short shorts. He wanted to just “stick it in once.” I didn’t really completely know that that meant I was actually losing my virginity in that moment. Either way, he moved my shorts to the side, unzipped his pants, put on a condom, and stuck his penis right into my super tight vagina. I almost cried. That shit hurt so bad, I vowed to NEVER allow any guy to put a penis inside me every again (we see how that worked out). Of course, he convinced me to do it again, and again, and again until I eventually enjoyed it. After he got tired of sticking it in my vagina, he surprised me by introducing me to Anal, but that’s a story for a different day.

One of my favorite sexcapades, was a one-night stand with adventurous guy named Luke. It’s not necessarily one of my best, but definitely one of my favorites. Why? Well, I was a chair person on a committee that held a huge annual event. I helped handle all the entertainment and financing. We hired this guy to be a speaker at the event and I’d never even seen what he looked like because another chair person had suggested him. I assumed he’d be some old boring man and didn’t really pay him any mind. All I cared about was that he didn’t try to overcharge us and that he actually showed up on time. When he got there, I was completely taken aback. This guy was YOUNG. And attractive, well dressed, and heavily tattooed (just my cup of tea). A little light-skinned for my taste, but hey, I didn’t mind the change. And he was TALENTED to the point where all the girls there were ready to throw their panties at him. I made it my goal right then and there to fuck him that night. I talked to him about his work, about his tattoos, about his travels. Then he asked me where are the good places to go to grab a drink and I told him. I had to finish up at my event, so he gave me his number and asked me to text him whenever I was done, and I most definitely did. He brought two friends (who were pretty ugly) and I brought a friend (who’s really hot) and we had beer and talked and hung out til 6 in the morning. He drove my friend home, then in the car I just asked him, “Do you wanna fuck tonight?” to which he replied “Okay. Your place?” Then he turned to my friend and asked if she wanted to watch. Of course, she’s not into that so she politely declined. We went back to my place, had amazing sex, and he promptly left. I saw him the next day because I’d left my sweater in his hotel room and I have never spoken to him again.

Then there was Aswin, it was a summer fling. We met at my cousin’s barbecue. He was cute, I was single, and I had just gotten out of a relationship. I knew he looked a little older, so I figured he was in his early-mid twenties, which wasn’t too bad considering I was 19 at the time. We smoked hookah, and he flirted with me, so I knew for a fact he was interested. I asked him how old he was, and I was definitely a bit surprised when he said he was 29, but I didn’t let that stop me. I was 19 after all, so it was perfectly legal. I went over to my cousin’s house and he was there. When it was time for me to leave, he offered to drive me to the train station. We sat in the car for a bit and talked and then he kissed me and we had a hot and heavy make out session right in his car with cops staring behind us. Then he nonchalantly mentioned his wife. Oh, no big deal. You’re just married. At fist I was pretty pissed that he was just mentioning the fact that he was married after he’d already made out with me but then I thought that this could be fun. We spent the rest of the summer fucking behind closed doors – borrowing his friends’ houses, him coming to my house while my parents were gone, fucking in his car right outside of his house while his wife was home. I always secretly wished she’d find out. Partly because he was obviously a terrible husband and she probably deserved better, but also partly because I kind of wanted her to know that I was taking care of her man in ways that she obviously wasn’t. He even said to me that I gave blow jobs better than any woman he’s gotten it from and that I rode him better than his wife did. Quite the accomplishment considering I was only 19 and she was a 35 year old experienced woman.

I guess after my first few boyfriends I was able to separate sex from emotion more and more. Or maybe it was because the guy I lost my virginity to kind of planted that seed and I kind of just ran with it after a couple of years. But beware, boys, because not every girl is wired the way I am. But we really aren’t as rare as you think we are. It’s all about being honest and a little bit forward without being vulgar and disrespectful. Also, READ the signs. There are differences between women being friendly, flirty, and wanting to rip your clothes off. Try to read her vibe – if she’s kind of nodding along with you and smiling as you’re talking and accepting compliments, she’s being friendly. If she touches your arm, actually laughing, complimenting you in return, and continuing conversation, then she’s flirting. If she’s looking you up and down, slightly biting or licking her lips, stirring her drink, PLUS all the signs of flirting, she probably wants to fuck. If you’re at a club, ask her to dance! Grinding up on you, pulling you closer – all signs of wanting to fuck. But you have to have a limit to being forward. Making it seem like it’s her idea is always a good move. One good way to do it is maybe say you wished it were quieter or more private. Women like me are not afraid to take the bait and ask if you wanna go somewhere else (my place, your place, a hotel room, etc.) so you probably won’t even have to ask if she wants to go somewhere else if she’s really feeling you. And after you’ve gotten the girl, please remember that even though she may be coming home with you the first night show her some respect. At the end of the day she is still a human being. Besides, if it’s really good you definitely should try to keep her around. That’s another thing about women like me; we’re very good at the friends with benefits thing. We don’t get attached.

Up next: my view on one night stands vs. friends with benefits, my whole philosophy on exclusivity, and how to establish a convenient, reliable, and REAL friends with benefits/no strings attached relationship. Remember, email me any questions, comments, or concerns: feministslutconfessions@gmail.com. I only bite if you deserve it … or if you’re into that. I only bite if you deserve it … or if you’re into that.

Happy Fucking!
– Veronica

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  • Shyguys21

    Its amazing that you’re so open and talk about you’re past so freely. Are you this same way with your peers in real life?

  • Marcus

    Veronica slut lol this girl has “Balls” – no pun intended lol

  • Veronica

    Yes, it was Hancock. Fitting, isn’t it?

  • zzz

    Is it possible to actually turn a woman on? even if she initially doesn’t show any signs of attraction? I find it unfair that women always get to be the choosers! i.e. when they express interest almost any guy goes for it (assuming they dont look like Sarah Jessica Parker!) but the inverse doesn’t seem to be true.

    At least in my case, 99% of my lays have been when women escalate sexually, but when I try to push this forward I always hit a brick wall!

    What’s your opinion?

    • Veronica

      Hey,

      First of all I just want to say that Sarah Jessica Parker is sexy! She doesn’t have the most conventionally beautiful features but she is a sexy woman because of the way she carries herself. You can do a lot worse than SJP.

      It is possible to turn a woman on, of course! But not if she isn’t attracted to you. If you aren’t attracted to a woman and she comes and talks to you, you aren’t going to go for it, are you? What you mean to say is that when women express interest in men who are attracted to them, the men will go for it. But if the man isn’t attracted to her (unless he’s super drunk) he usually won’t go for it. I know this because I’ve seen men turn women down that they aren’t attracted to.

      Now I’m gonna go all feminist on you. In a society where women don’t really have much of a say in their sexuality (sexual exploitation, sex symbols all over the media, the fact that most women advance in the media industry because of their sex appeal, rape culture, expectations that society has about a women’s sex life and sex drive, issues on reproduction, and the list goes on), being able to say “no” to men who are trying to seduce them but they aren’t attracted to is one of the only things we have in our control. It’s nice for us to be the “choosers” and have the upper hand in some area of our sex life, especially who we go to bed with (of course when the sex is consensual).

      My advice to you is to not push things too far with women who are not attracted to you and focus on those who are. There will always be women who are not attracted to you and that’s perfectly fine; to each their own. If a woman is not showing interest, just wrap things up and move on to the next, as I’m sure you’d hope a woman who you were not attracted to would do if she was trying to seduce you and you weren’t interested.

      Hope this helps! Good Luck!

      – Veronica

  • Galleon

    I have to disagree with the tone of the above comments.

    I don´t see how these descriptions are any different from the sexual experiences of any man around here. All we know about these guys is that they were “cute”, “tattoed”, “green eyed” or “talented” (wtf).

    As far as this girl is concerned, confidence, game, interesting background or any other good qualities are out of the equation. Which is ok. But i think these articles clash and conflict with the dogmas and phylosophy spread here.

    Now Veronica, are you at all impressed with confidence in guys? have you ever found masculinity and grit trumped looks? have you ever witnessed such an event?

    • Veronica

      Galleo:

      I’m actually glad you pointed out these things. First I want to address the wtf in the parantheses. By talented I mean he was an amazing artist. Poet to be exact. Furthermore, confidence is one of my biggest turn ons. While I came on to these men it was because after just a few minutes of talking to them I could see that they were sure of themselves (even the guy who I lost my virginity to who turned out to be a total loser).

      Secondly I am not a boring person. Therefore I am not attracted to boring people. These men all had some quality or qualities that attracted me to them besides appearance. I don’t just throw myself at any guy I find attractive. This article wouldve been a lot longer if I sat down and listed all the specific events that led us to sexual encounters. You can, of course, email me ans I’ll tell you everything you want to know.

      And yes I have had sex with men who weren’t the most physically attractive but were confident and intelligent. Men who I could speak to about many differemt subjects and who didn’t bore me.

      I will say that I don’t really appreciate the overall tone of your comment but to each their own. You assumed that confidence, game, and interesting background were of no concern to me from reading one article. Please remember that you do not know me.

      And lastly I never intended my sexual experiences to be different than anyone’s. They are just mine and I am simply telling them.

  • Veronica

    Galleo:

    I’m actually glad you pointed out these things. First I want to address the wtf in the parantheses. By talented I mean he was an amazing artist. Poet to be exact. Furthermore, confidence is one of my biggest turn ons. While I came on to these men it was because after just a few minutes of talking to them I could see that they were sure of themselves (even the guy who I lost my virginity to who turned out to be a total loser).

    Secondly I am not a boring person. Therefore I am not attracted to boring people. These men all had some quality or qualities that attracted me to them besides appearance. I don’t just throw myself at any guy I find attractive. This article wouldve been a lot longer if I sat down and listed all the specific events that led us to sexual encounters. You can, of course, email me ans I’ll tell you everything you want to know.

    And yes I have had sex with men who weren’t the most physically attractive but were confident and intelligent. Men who I could speak to about many differemt subjects and who didn’t bore me.

    I will say that I don’t really appreciate the overall tone of your comment but to each their own. You assumed that confidence, game, and interesting background were of no concern to me from reading one article. Please remember that you do not know me.

    And lastly I never intended my sexual experiences to be different than anyone’s. They are just mine and I am simply telling them.

  • Galleon

    I see

  • Stevie

    When are the other parts coming? I’m extremely interested and I appreciate women like you a lot, thank you.

  • Ronnie

    Still interesting and can figure the episodes.

    Waiting for your next confessions..

    Thanks again for sharing and addressing the comments well and seemingly satisfactorilly.