I don’t think it’s a coincidence that many of the most successful driven people I have met in this community also practice a martial art.
The same kind of man who can see the benefit in constant exercise, stretching and training towards perfection, is the same kind of man who can employ those skills towards meeting and seducing beautiful women.
Because Becoming a Player is not just about getting what you want, it is about training yourself to get what you want.
If you just wanted to have sex with a beautiful woman, then all you would need to do is save up a couple of hundred bucks and you could sleep with an nice looking prostitute for a night. But then what?
You didn’t earn that sex, you bought it, you cheated and you’re no better off now than you were before.
If you don’t earn the win, then you don’t learn how to keep winning and you set yourself up for a lifetime of failure.
The key to having a great life full of success is to set yourself goals and don’t just set yourself the goal of the prize, set yourself the goal of having a great journey because this is where the real value is.
Why Martial Arts
Martial Arts requires a strict mental discipline and enforces a strict training regimen.
Did you know that most people who begin a martial art never make it to Black belt? They join on a whim and then once it gets too hard or life throws a few obstacles in the way they give up.
I was one those people myself for a while. I had given up Taekwondo at the age of 15 because of a knee injury I sustained playing rugby and it took me another eight years to come back and finish what I started.
If it hadn’t been for my decision to become a Player I am sure that I never would have gone back and earned my Black Belt in Taekwondo.
When I was younger I started lots of things but I never finished any of them. As soon as it got tough and stopped being fun, I quit and I looked for something new. It was a essentially a cycle of failure.
It was on my journey to become a player that I learnt the value of finishing things and seeing them through to the end. And when I thought back on all the things I had started and never finished, I made a promise to myself that I would make amends for my past lack of tenacity and that is what brought me back to Taekwondo.
Taekwondo only helped to build upon my new virtue of tenacity. It brought more purpose, activity and balance into my life and it allowed me to gradually refine my physical and mental self to a point where I felt fit, athletic and powerful.
Martial Arts Will Give You Confidence
Perhaps one of the more important reasons to learn a martial art, is the confidence that comes with it. If you are someone who is intimidated by other men when you go out, you probably have good reason to be. But when you know that you can kick someone in the head in a flash or break bricks with your bare fist, a lot of that fear dissipates and you feel more willing to stand up for yourself.
To a woman it is very important that she feels safe with her man. If she feels like her man can’t protect her then she wont feel a lot of security from him and security is very important for creating attraction.
I don’t make a habit of getting in fights but when I was out one night a drunk guy called my girlfriend and her friends sluts not realizing that I was following close behind. I walked up to him where he was sitting with his friends and I told him to apologize immediately, he then rose up to challenge me and I put an open palm into his forehead so quick and powerfully that his hands went to his head and all he could do was stare at me in shock. I struck him in such a way that it didn’t do any damage but in that instance he knew that I didn’t fear him or his friends and he was suddenly afraid himself.
After this my girlfriend was incredibly turned on to the point where she couldn’t keep her hands off me, and not only that straight away after striking him, I had other girls who saw it coming up to me and touching my arms and hitting on me. It was a very uncivilized display of domination but it brought about very primitive sexual reactions in the women around me. It was fascinating.
I would never advocate violence but I would definitely recommend learning a martial art so that if you were ever in a situation where you needed it to protect either yourself or someone else, you would have it.
Start a martial art, and commit yourself to getting your Black Belt. It doesn’t matter if you get injured along the way, or your club shuts down, or you get involved with a girl in the club and it becomes awkward. All of these things happened to me and I didn’t let them stop me.
Earning a Black Belt in a martial art is an incredible thing to do and no one will ever be able to take that away from you as long as you live. I passionately believe that every Player should have this knowledge backing them up, to help make them as mentally and physically powerful as they can be.
And besides… Chicks dig guys with Black Belts.
By Kieran Black[social_share\]
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