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How To Eat Pussy Like A Player

The Players Guide To Giving Girls Amazing Oral Sex

Studies have shown that women are much more likely to orgasm from cunnilingus than they are from conventional sex; so if you want to be renowned as an incredible lover then it’s definitely a skill worth learning.

When preparing a girl for oral sex it’s vital to her overall orgasm that you instill an initial feeling of suspense and fill her pussy with anticipation. You can do this through foreplay, kissing her mouth and her neck, running your hands over her body, sucking or running circles with your tongue around her nipples, kissing or gently biting around her inner thigh.

The longer you do this the hotter she will get and her anticipation and desire should drive her wild, so by the time your mouth first touches her pussy she will well and truly be ready for you to perform your magic!

Rookie Mistakes

Before we tell you how to eat pussy, first we’re going to tell you how you shouldn’t eat pussy. Here are some of the more common rookie mistakes which lose guys points when they are eating pussy.

Drooling

When you are eating a girl pussy make sure you don’t drool all over her vagina; you want it to be wet down there but you want it to be wet from her, not from you.

Try and keep it clean down there, don’t let it get too sloppy, unless you’re a Doberman with little self control this shouldn’t be too hard.

Biting

The term ‘eating pussy’ is not a literal one. Biting can actually really hurt a girls vagina. The flesh is especially soft and sensitive and will cause her discomfort for days if you bruise or puncture the flesh. There are some ways you can use your teeth but we will get into that later.

Pounding

Don’t pound her with your fingers, a lot of guys have watched this in porn and make the mistake of ‘jabbing their fingers in there’ thinking it will get her off. Once again the vagina is very soft and fragile organ and pounding her with your fingers will likely cause a very unpleasant sensation for her.

As long as you don’t make those mistakes and follow the simple instructions ahead you should be welling on your way to becoming a cunning linguist.

How To Eat Pussy Like A Player

1. Positioning

The best position to have your girl in when performing cunnilingus is on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees bent, similar to the position your girl would adopt in the missionary position. Ideally you want to be able to position your head comfortably between her thighs and be able to wrap your arms around her legs with her feet on your shoulders.

If you are both tall and using a standard queen size bed then you may find yourself a bit tight for space. The best thing to do in this instance is to either lay your stomach on the bed with your legs hanging over the side and your head between her thighs or you may also wish stick your backside up in the air and go down on her like that; however you decide to position yourself make sure you are comfortable because you might be there for awhile.

2. Licking

Start slow; licking the outside of her vagina (labia) like you would an ice cream cone, let your tongue flat and gentle glide along the outside of her vagina for a time letting the anticipation of the penetration of your tongue build.

The clitoris is the most sensitive of the female erogenous zones; comprising of thousands of nerve endings, sometimes men struggle to find this but once you have located it on your girl you can normally just feel your way back with your tongue as it is a small circular lump at the top and front of the vagina.

When licking the clitoris it is important to be gentle and also to pay attention to the ‘clitoral hood’ which is the sensitive bit of skin above the clitoris. If you are unsure how to lick it, one popular successful technique is to run your tongue slowly around it in little circles or if your more of a grammar man, practice writing the alphabet with your tongue. Women love this.

3. Sucking

The sensation of sucking doesn’t just feel good on male genitalia for some women it feels phenomenal. If you have ever French kissed a girl you may have sucked lightly on their lips or at the very least caressed her tongue with yours (otherwise it wasn’t a real French kiss), French kiss her pussy in much the same matter spontaneously sucking on her labia and clitoris at intermittent times throughout the cunnilingus.

4. Flicking

Before you start cracking your knuckles; flicking in oral sex refers to a motion of the tongue wherein you move your tongue rapidly in and out of your mouth so it creates a flicking sensation on the vagina. If you have ever been curious enough to put your finger in a fan then this is similar only a lot less painful for the receiver.

The best way to do this is to incorporate it into the sucking, by sucking the area surrounding the clitoris into your mouth then flicking it lightly with your tongue.

5. Nodding

This involves lightly emerging your mouth and chin into the vaginal area and wagging it up and down or from side to side. Make sure you have shaven your face prior because otherwise it can cause an unpleasant scratching sensation.

You can also let your bottom lip hang loose during this and let it rub up and down over the clitoris to create a pleasant sensation. Nodding normally works best after prolonged ‘soft’ stimulation because it simulates the feeling of pressure and helps prepare the vagina for penetration.

6. Nibbling

It is very important not to confuse ‘nibbling’ with ‘biting’. When performing cunnilingus you never want to do anything that can cause pain and discomfort. However, what you can do is let her feel your teeth without actually biting down.

The best way to do this is to (like flicking) incorporate this with sucking, by very gently nibbling the labia intermittently during cunnilingus. This can feel amazing for women if done correctly so take care to pay attention to how she is reacting. If she is flinching or screaming in a bad way then you are doing something wrong.

7. Fingering

Digital penetration can be a great thing during oral sex, however make sure that you don’t do it too early during cunnilingus. If the vagina is not properly lubricated then it can be painful and uncomfortable for girls.

It is best to start with slowly inserting your index finger into the vaginal entrance gently pushing it in then slowly bringing it back and forth, don’t stop orally pleasuring her whilst you do this but rather make it part of the process.

Once your finger is in, start curling your finger in a beckoning motion either upwards; pushing her clitoris out and further exposing it to your mouth, or even downwards putting pressure on her anus. Some girls prefer one or the other but generally most girls find both sensations pleasurable.

If your girls vaginal entrance feels particularly loose around your index finger then feel free to insert another one for extra girth, this is very much at your discretion, be warned that some particularly tight girls might find two fingers uncomfortable, so pay attention to her reaction and start multitasking with your mouth and your hand until you get the reaction you want from your girl.

8. Kissing

Occasionally kiss her clitoris and her labia softly if you feel that she is finding you too rough. Kiss her vagina like you would kiss her mouth as they are relatively similar orifices. Kiss her labia as you would kiss her lips and caress her clitoris as you would caress her tongue (only softer).

9. Handling

If you have a spare hand feel, free to explore her other erogenous zones to add to the sensation. Run your spare hand(s) up over her stomach and gently fondle her breasts or use it to grab and firmly squeeze her ass and thighs whilst you continue to pleasure her with your mouth and finger(s). Some might find this easier than others. If you have played a lot of videogames you might find that maintaining these complicated combo’s to be quite easy.

10. Listening

This is actually the most important part of making a girl cum from oral sex. Girls make sounds during cunnillingis to let you know if you are doing it right. If she starts making the right sounds then whatever you do don’t try and be creative, just keep doing whatever you are doing the way you are doing it until those sounds climax.

If she makes a lot of orgasmic noises for a time then they start to fade then it might be time to change your strategy but be careful that you do not change strategy in the midst of doing something right because this will break the momentum and you’ll have to start over.

Once you hear her coming close to climax she should start to move her hips and her body and will often visibly convulse as she is ejaculating. Keep going until she stops screaming and once she has orgasmed and is laying there breathing heavily; her clitoris will be especially sensitive so go back to gently kissing or licking her and it should make a happy ending to her orgasm.

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How To Eat Pussy Like A Player