This Will Make You Happy And Successful, Guaranteed!
Hi there, it is Andreas Jacobsen here again with another article for you guys. Now, it has been a long time since I have last written a blog post here on Way Of The Player, but to make a long story short I have been battling with inspiration. I have lacked the sufficient drive and creativity to consistently create articles for you guys, my apologies! But hey, that is just another example that I am in no way perfect.
To make up for my slack, I intend to write a life changing article today. An article that if you took, what I say and applied it to your life, all your so-called issues with women will “disappear” over time.
I know it is a big promise, but I can say that it has been that way for me and there is no reason it shouldn’t be that way for you.
Let’s get to it then…
Happiness is all that matters
Do you remember why you started reading dating advice in the first place?
You wanted to be better with women, obviously! But if we go a layer deeper, to the core, what made you look for dating advice?
You weren’t satisfied with the way you felt and the way you lived your life, and it was reflected in your dating through lack of/no experience and success in that area. Or you simply wanted more to feed your ego, which is no better.
But I’ll tell you something you have probably heard before…
Women will NEVER solve your problems! The only person, who can solve your problems, is YOU!
If you feel lonely, getting a girlfriend isn’t the answer. You simply need to connect more with the people in your life, you need to share first and you need to share things/feelings/memories, you are not comfortable sharing with others to truly feel connection with the people in your life.
If you lack confidence and self esteem, you will never get it from women. Period. Confidence is something that comes from within and not from women.
The answer to ALL your issues with women is simply this:
Your ultimate goal is to not give a fuck and just be happy! It really is that simple.
You need to start focusing on yourself to feel happy, fulfilled and confident and when you begin to radiate this kind of charisma, women will be drawn to you and it will feel like you are not doing a THING to attract and date gorgeous women! And let me tell you… That is a pretty good place to be in
Your Vision Is Your Power
What I have just described sounds very good in THEORY, but the biggest obstacle is, of course, applying it to your life in a practical way. How can you implement this philosophy to experience the tremendous benefits it offers?
Simple: start with your vision!
Do you know what you want from your life? What do you want to experience, what kind of relationships do you want, what is your financial situation like, your career? What do you want to feel like? How do you view yourself and how do you want to feel like?
You need to have a vision to live a prosperous life, that is what I believe! So get to it right away if you haven’t already and design your ultimate life and the ultimate you!
When that is done, you will need to start and end each day by reading this vision to yourself and feel like it is already reality! Feel like you want to feel. Imagine your vision to be true TODAY, no matter how far off in the future it may be, and feel happy, confident and at peace with yourself. You have the power to feel any way you want to feel, because your feelings are a reflection of your thinking in the moment.
And you know what? You DESERVE to feel ANY way you want to feel! This is your life, so start by feeling awesome, happy and confident TODAY!
Small Actions Every Day Makes All The Difference
Obviously, it is not enough to just imagine what it would be like if your vision was reality. Change doesn’t happen like that I am afraid.
Beginning to feel like you would like to feel being the “ultimate you” is a good start for becoming something great, but to really MANIFEST this change, to make the change permanent and strong, you will need to do certain and conscious ACTIONS every day that supports your vision! When you have your vision in your mind and you start to do something to move in the right direction, your mind goes “Hey, he is not full of shit, he really IS something special! I better make him feel confident, sexy and happy”. It is not until you change your actions that the way you view yourself changes for good.
Treat yourself with self respect first and foremost. Eat and drink healthy consciously (educate yourself in this area), keep your house/apartment/room clean, exercise, be well groomed and well dressed is the most basic and simple to begin with. Without this, you will never reach the heights you dream of.
Now, I am going to give you my daily routine to “tame” my mind and keep it working in the direction I want. This is EXTREMELY powerful when you do it on a daily basis, but don’t expect overnight results with these methods. You will need patience and discipline to make it work for you, and in time (often less time than we would expect), you will start to notice INCREDIBLE changes!
Here it is:
- 15 minutes of daily meditation. I recommend doing this in the morning for the best start to your day.
- 5 minutes of what I call the “mirror exercise”. Look yourself deep into your eyes in the mirror until you feel like you connect with your own soul and then tell yourself just how much you love yourself, accept yourself, how awesome you are and to never forget it! Improvising this works best for me.
- Read and visualize your vision twice a day, in the morning and in the evening. A session of this doesn’t have to take more than 5-10 minutes, it is just important that you DO IT! Daily. Remember to feel like it is already your reality to make this work for you.
- Take daily pauses to consider who you are, what you want and how you want to feel. Don’t just turn on the TV to relax yourself; sit in your thoughts, contemplate your life. Do this as often as you can, while feeling awesome.
- Read 10 pages of a life changing book DAILY! I cannot even begin to describe how much this simple little practice can change your life forever, it is INCREDIBLY!
And there you have it! My recipe for success and happiness. I hope you have enjoyed reading this article, and please share your thoughts, opinions or questions in the comments section below.
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Until next time,