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Confessions of a Feminist Slut

Part 1: Confessions Of A Feminist Slut

Hey Way of the Player! My name is Veronica. I had an amazing conversation with Eddie and he thought it would be a great idea for me to tell my experiences an share my story with the site readers. This will be a four part series in which I will detail my mindset, attitude, views, and stories. Many of these things I’ve only told my closest friends but thanks to Eddie you guys will be exposed to a forbidden world. Fasten your seat belts and hold on tight!

First off, let’s start with what I mean by a feminist slut. No, I don’t mean feminist as in bra-burning man-hating lesbian who doesn’t shave her pits. I maintain myself, thank you very much and I’m straight (most of the time). Although, I could do without the bra – I have pretty nice tits. Anyway, by feminist I mean I strive for gender equality – including sexual equality. Which is where the slut part comes in. I like to take charge of the word. It has had such a negative connotation and I want to change that, at least for myself. I like sex. Lots of it. With different men. I get a rush out of having sex with a different guy – first touches, first kisses, first licks, bites, scratches and … everything else. But being a slut doesn’t change who I am as a person. I make absolutely no apologies about who I am. I speak my mind, I’m honest and blunt, and I am very confident in my own skin.

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So this is where the problem comes in. As soon as guys figure out that I’m sexually promiscuous (and I’m pretty honest, so I will probably say it) they turn into Hornballs. But no, I do not want pictures of your dick flooding my inbox. I didn’t fucking ask. That’s probably the equivalent of a guy telling a girl he’s looking for a relationship and she just asks him to be her boyfriend right then and there without any signs that he even wants to be with her. If I’m not giving you any type of signal that I want to have sex with you, there’s no reason to assume I want to because I like having sex. And trust me, if I want to have sex with you, you’ll know. How, you ask? I will tell you. Simple as that. Guys underestimate how honest girls can be, especially girls that know what the fuck they want.

In case you were wondering, yes I have actually come up to guys and asked them if they wanted to come back to my place with me. That already sets the tone of the kind of relationship I want. Basically I just want to fuck. I don’t care about what kind of problems you’re going through, I do not want to talk to you or get to know you. I just want your penis in my vagina, sometimes just once and sometimes in a continual sexual relationship. It’s all about setting and the connection and understanding between us. If you don’t feel some type of sexual connection or at least some sort of attraction, please don’t try to go for it. Women like me still have standards. We won’t just fuck anything with a penis. And yes, you do have to try. We don’t do all the work.

So now you know a little bit about my attitude and mindset. Next stop: How a slut loses her virginity and some of my favorite conquests. Careful. I can get a little bit raunchy.

Oh! And by the way, if you have any questions, comments, concerns, you can email me at feministslutconfessions@gmail.com. I don’t take to judging kindly, so if you get nasty with me, I can be nastier. And no, I don’t mean sex talk.

Happy Fucking!

By Veronica

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  • Silly Willy

    This is certainly something different than I’m used to at WOTP, so the rumors are true. There are women who actually think like “Men”?

    • Veronica

      Hey! Thanks for your response. I appreciate your use of quotes when saying “men” because the truth is that my intention is not to think or act like a man. My purpose is to act and think however I want. I don’t think that my gender has really anything to do with it, and it shouldn’t. Gender norms are socially constructed, and the way we end up thinking is largely due to the way we are taught to think. Yes, there are some biological explanations but they vary from person to person. So try not to think of it as me thinking like a “man.” Instead, I am just thinking like myself and being up front about it! 🙂

      – Veronica

      • Kieran

        I had a friend who was what you might call a lesbian, she mostly dated girls but I know that she had dated a few guys in the past. When she first started dating girls I asked her, so does this mean that you’re out of the closet? Are you a lesbian now? And she responded by saying, I’m me, whatever that is, I do what I feel and I don’t subscribe to labels.

        • Ronnie

          Interesting, she put up a defence but yet again refused to own up to her actions.
          I quite understand.

      • Ronnie

        My guess is we are what we are because of how we were brought up, information that we picked up on the journey to growing up, a few bad or good experiences that we went through and interpreted individually.
        One distinction about human beings is we can’t all be the same, there ice queens, angles, insecure beings others have perspectives of low self esteem but all rounding up to us being unique, different and this causes us to uniquely respond, act and cope differently.
        Not all people will understand you the way you want them to understand you or follow suit, hence the labels or social constructions as you call it.
        But it was nice of you to share and am looking forward to read more and hopefully understand you.

  • brerninge

    Beautiful! Its about time guys get with the program and start accepting women who believe in sexual freedom.

    Hey Veronica 😉

    • Veronica

      Well hello there 😉

      Thank you! And other women should accept it as well. A lot of the time, it’s not even men who look down on women who are expressive about their sexuality, it’s other women (maybe they are too scared to be as expressive as they want to be and wish they could be, too. Who knows?). Most men have been fairly receptive to me, it’s the women that need to be a little more open-minded. Hopefully, this will give them that push! Encourage your lady friends to read 🙂

      – Veronica

  • Darryl

    This needs to get out there. It’s sad that females are labeled as that in a derrogatory sen se as if sex is a crime. A lot of women out there do not have a strong enough character-as you have displayed-tru. embrace the fact that they love to have sex. But I can understand why. In society, people tend to lack resppect for those who have a lack of the norm of moral standards when it comes to their bodies and interpersonal relstionships. I truly respect you for keeping it one hundred and speaking out as an encouragement for others to do so. I don’t know if i made any semse lol but these were the thoughs that badgered my mind as i read this

    • Veronica

      Hey Darryl,

      Thank you so much! I appreciate your thoughts and I definitely understood! I’m glad you respect the fact that I try and be as honest as possible and I really do hope that others can break out of their shells (that is, if they want to!). However, let’s try not to look at sexuality as an issue of morality. As long as we’re not doing anything wrong (i.e infidelity or other sexual misconduct, knowingly putting someone at risk for an STD, etc.) there really shouldn’t be any sort of moral standard for sex. It’s such a personal decision and has no bearing on sort of person someone is. Having a lot of sex doesn’t change the fact that someone is compassionate, kind, intelligent, generous, etc. etc. and NOT having sex doesn’t make someone “moral.” (They can still be a pretty sucky person). I really appreciate your insight. Hope you keep reading!

      Best,
      Veronica

      • Kieran

        I agree and I will add, it is against our very nature as a species to be sexually repressed/frustrated, in extreme instances it can actually lead to really disgusting and depraved mentalities i.e. Pedophile priests, man hating feminists, Sexual violence, Misogyny.

  • Daniel

    Listen, this is cool and all, but in reality, even with your unleashed “inner slut”, you are reserved behind the feminist qualities that are the very reason as to why men are too scared to go up to you. Until masculinity becomes the norm, all that inner feminist slut stuff doesnt matter and in fact can be a deterrent for men to find the strength to understand it. It’s always clear to those who look that women love sex, maybe even more then men.

    • Veronica

      Hey Daniel!

      Thanks for your response! I wouldn’t say I’m reserved behind anything. Men aren’t scared to go up to me. In fact, I was approached a couple times at work today! I am very approachable, and I don’t preach at anyone. Also, I am in no way “Masculine”. (I put this in quotations because I try not define people in terms of gender, seeing as it is a social construct. However, I do understand that these definitions are prominent in today’s society and there’s not much i can do about it.) If I had to choose, I’d say I was extremely feminine. Most men are actually very intrigued by the way that I think and the things that I have to say. Besides the fact that some men immediately think that I’m “DTF” I really haven’t had problems with my personality and the way I think when it comes to men. I’ve had my share of meaningful relationships with men who care to get to know me. And the ones that don’t – I know there is nothing wrong with me! We obviously just didn’t click. I am still a beautiful, intelligent, funny, strong-minded, and caring woman but I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea!

      Also, I think that you are looking at feminism as a kind of “Women are better than men” kind of thing. As a feminist, I don’t look to be intimidating to or better than men. All I ask is to be on a level playing field socially, financially, and professionally. As a feminist, I also advocate for LGBTQ rights and there are some issues that affect straight men as well (men get a lot of shit for some stuff that’s socially constructed, too!)

      And yes, women love sex. Some are more into it than others, some are more quiet about it than others, and some don’t really like sex at all. Same goes with men!

      – Veronica

      • Daniel

        My response of masculinity had to do with its prevalence amongst men. On one hand I dont expect men to be the same as those 10 generations ago, rather I expect them to adjust to the era. As for your feminine qualities, thats great. I understand that. But this whole gender construct ideology is rather a mute one. Men and women are not the same and will never be the same, its just the reality of it. Biologically, mentally, physiologically, we are too different to be the “same”. While feminism is prevalent today I think to many people believe they are feminist when in fact they aren’t. Gender equality isn’t so much a feminist issue these days. In fact, that is first wave feminism. Simone de beauvoir and such. Todays third wave feminism is retarded. It is the cause of all the issues of masculinity and feminism, these blurred lines as robin thicke would say.

        All in all. You seem cool and im glad you had the guts to come out.

  • violette

    I’m glad that you feel free to express your sexuality, we all should. I went through a phase where I fucked, who I wanted, when I wanted. And after it all I realized I didn’t feel anymore empowered than before I started. Should women be free to express their sexuality in anyway they choose? Of course. But there are other ways of expressing our feminine energy.

    • Veronica

      Hey Violette,

      Thanks for your response! It’s nice to see another woman on here! 😉 I completely agree with you! I am the way I am because it is how and who I choose to be, not because I need to feel a sense of empowerment or because I want to feel “like a man” or like I’m “playing their game” or anything like that! It is just how I choose to express my sexuality. Maybe in the future I will choose to express it differently (writing this, for example, is one of my ways). And of course I have met men that I can really see myself with in a long term relationship, and I go for it! But I agree that we should be free to express our sexuality in any way we choose. But everything isn’t for everyone, so it’s whatever someone feels comfortable with 🙂

      Hope you keep reading!

      – Veronica

  • zzz

    Sluts are amazing, it’s our fault as men we’ve attached all this negativity to the word – here’s the solution:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuSF_5HmgTI&list=UUb7H-SPD7_XfRZO0z2Uo3_A&index=4

    😀

  • zzz

    PS the above video is purely for shits and giggles! I really appreciate your honesty and the fact that you’re pointing out the truth about man-woman dynamic in this day and age. Women have as much to pursue men as men do to pursue women – at the end of the day we’re all human and have the same instincts why should gender get in the way of expressing our sexuality?

    • Veronica

      Hey!

      Thanks for you response! I actually thought the video was pretty funny! I feel the same way about gender, sexuality, human interaction, and social constructs in general. Gender shouldn’t get in the way of expressing our sexuality, what we like/dislike, how we dress, how we speak, how we do anything, really! It’s not about gender because gender norms and behaviors are socially constructed. Women and men were not born/are not supposed to act any specific way.

      Hope you keep reading!

      – Veronica

  • J

    How do I ask a girl out? I’m in high school and I’m talking to this girl I just want to ask her out and make sure we’re dating.

    • Veronica

      Hey J!

      Thanks for your question! If you don’t know this girl, introduce yourself, first! Compliment her, genuinely (maybe you like her smile or her eyes); don’t try any pick up lines, we see right through them! Get a conversation going (Way of the Player has an awesome article about having Great Conversations with women) and make sure you ask questions that she can answer without just a yes or no (you’re kind of stuck after that!). Maybe offer to keep the conversation going over coffee, lunch, or dinner or if you think that might be too fast, ask her for her phone number (we much appreciate men who still ask for our numbers instead of Facebook/Instagram/Twitter) so you can talk another time. Don’t text or call her two seconds later but don’t wait a week either. Maybe later that night if it’s early in the day or the next day. If you get to go on a few dates with her (four or more) you can have an open conversation with her about where you two are. WOTP Has lots of helpful articles with stuff like this, as well if you need any more help, and go on the forums, too! Hope this helps!

      Keep reading!

      – Veronica

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