10 Dating Facts That Will Blow You Away


These 10 dating tips from New York Dating Coach and columnist ‘Eddie Fews’ are guaranteed to improve your game. Read and enjoy.

Dating tip 1

Studies show that Schools, Colleges, Coffee Shops, and Malls are all excellent places to flirt because people are more open to meeting others in these places. Poor locations are restaurants and movie theaters.

So Instead of moping around your favorite internet dating site hoping to get lucky; I’d advise getting off your ass, out of the house and to place where women actually are. Single women are always opening to meeting genuine men who aren’t approaching them with cheesy pick up lines. Think about it… Wouldn’t you be happy if the girl of your dreams walked into Starbucks  sat at your table and said hello? Women enjoy it just as much as you would; in fact, I know a number of single women who say they hang out at coffee shops hoping some guy has the courage to strike up a conversation.

Dating tip 2

Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years.

This ties directly into the the last dating fact; it appears that men just aren’t what we used to be. Is this due to obesity or are men just not bold enough to ask women out anymore? Guys, don’t let your fear of rejection prevent you from having a good time.

Dating tip 3

A woman can increase the likelihood of a man approaching her if she uncrosses her arms, makes subtle eye contact, and smiles.

Ladies, make it easy on him; don’t complain that men aren’t approaching you if you aren’t at least giving him the invitation. Men can be a bit oblivious to subtle hints so smile, wink, or even “accidentally” bump into him if you think he’s really cute.

Dating tip 4

Four out of ten workplace dating relationships result in marriage.

As much as I have always been against dating someone in your work place for a number of reasons, the above may have just proved me wrong. Despite all that can go wrong; if you are looking for a wife you may not need to look further than the cubicle to your left.

Dating tip 5

Psychologists at the University of Pennsylvania studied data from over 10,000 speed daters and found that most people make a decision regarding a person’s attraction within three seconds of meeting.

This is clear proof that being extra nice or begging a girl to be with you is not so good of an idea. If she doesn’t want to sleep with you in the first three seconds, chances are she isn’t going to want to sleep with you in the first 3 months. However attraction can still be created through seductive behavior once it is learned.

Dating tip 6

Nearly 40% of men do not feel confident meeting a woman for the first time.

Ladies, if you are nervous before a first date, the chances are he is just as nervous as you are. I usually advise my clients to state their nervousness to their date as a way of overcoming it. It allows you to express yourself, show honesty, and stimulate conversation that doesn’t revolve around the usual boring ” Where did you go to school” conversations.

Dating tip 7

Immediately after Tiger Wood’s affairs became public, men looking for discreet relationships on BeNaughty(dot)com dropped by 47.5%.

Irrelevant, but hilarious.

Dating tip 8

Studies show that before a man even speaks a word, the way he stands (whether he is slouching or not) counts for over 80% of a woman’s first impression.

You know what they say, 80% of what you are saying is not coming out of your mouth. Your mental state is usually communicated to the people around you through your bodily language. Wanna look attractive before saying a word? Stand up straight, hold your head high and keep your hands out of your pockets.

Dating tip 9

If you want to create an instant link with a date, say his or her name at least twice in the conversation. This shows attentiveness and interest.

In Dale Carnegies best selling book ‘How To Win Friends and Influence People’ he states ” Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” Remembering a persons name can be endearing and flattering; it creates an instant connection because they feel like you care about who they are. Remembering and repeating a persons name is a sure way to build instant rapport. For all the people that say they aren’t good with names, this is a skill worth improving.

Dating tip 10

When a man first approaches a woman, she will base 55% of her initial impression of him on his appearance and body language, 38% on his style of speaking, and 7% on what he actually says.

This is for all the men who email me asking what I say to girls; the words are far less important than you think. Its honestly not a matter of what you say; its a matter of “how” you say it. If you have self confidence and you learn to communicate this through your body language and tone of voice you have already won 93% of the battle.

By Eddie Fews


If you have been looking for yourself for a long time and have no idea where to start, contact me at EddieFews@wayoftheplayer.com for Consultation through Instant Messenger, Skype, or In Person One on One Coaching. We all need somebody, don’t let your pride stand in the way of your happiness.

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  • Kieran

    Simple yet effective. These are really good tips.